Tag: Moving In

  • Moving In Together

    The original version of this post really reflected some of my old assumptions about the “norm” in polyamory. Hopefully I’ve managed to clean all of that up. Polyamory is complicated and everyone does it differently. Revised 1/11/2017 A couple posts back I mentioned that if someone in a polyam relationship gets pregnant, people who had…

  • Moving in: Sleeping Together (or Apart)

    A few years back I did a write up on all the various ways I knew of for polyfolk to arrange their bedrooms. At some point, I need to go back and expand it a bit to include sleeping arrangements for solo polies, but aside from that it is still a fairly comprehensive list. If…

  • Moving in Together: Schedules and Patterns

    Almost everyone’s life is built around schedules and patterns. Some patterns are as simple as going food shopping every Tuesday and doing the cleaning on Thursday. Others need by-the-minute calendars to keep track of what is going on when. When a poly family moves in together everyone’s patterns and schedules are going to be disrupted.…

  • Polyfolk Moving In Together: Should you get a new home?

    As I said in my last regular post, I’m going to be writing a series on polyfolk moving in together. To start us off, let’s take a look at where your polycule is going to live. Generally one of two things happen when a polycule takes the step of moving in together. Either everyone moves…